Sightseeing - A Reconciliation Lesson

Sunday December 9th was our thirteenth session together. This week we had a lesson dedicated to learning more about the Sacrament of Reconciliation. In preparing for the session, I decided we would go over to the church and see the confessionals, talk about them, and talk about what goes on during the sacrament. I put together a pamphlet that walks through the steps of the sacrament, which you can find here. I did not develop a formal lesson plan for the session.

When we met in the common area for the whole group activity, we learned Earnest Eagle would not be joining us. We missed him, but hope he had a terrific time on his special camping trip!

The children were very excited to be taking a field trip to the church! We went to see the confessional (aka the Reconciliation room). They were completely fascinated with the room! We looked at the side that had two chairs. We learned how the priest sits in one of the chairs, and then when we come in we sit on the other chair and we see and talk to the priest while we have our Confession.

Then we saw another door and looked in there. No chairs, only a place to kneel. What was that for? I explained that if we want to use this side, we do not see the priest. We have our confession by having the same conversation, we just are not face to face. The children were amazed! Why would anyone want to do it that way! I explained that was the way everyone used to do it, and today we have a choice of how we want to participate.

We all went back to the other side and climbed in (yes, we are happy we are a small class!!). First, we talked about Father's homily today. He had talked about how when he first joined the Holy Ghost Fathers, he learned that part of their credo was that they had to be true to go to Confession every week. He told how he was challenged by that and thought it was "just a rule in the book". After all, he was studying to be a priest, he was harmless... why would he need to go to Confession every week? He went on to discuss how he came to have a change of heart and challenged us to think about how we feel about the sacrament and how true are we? (He picked a perfect day to have this topic and couldn't have given a better discussion about why to go to Confession if we had planned it! The Holy Spirit is certainly with us!).

Then, we took turns reading sections from the Reconciliation pamphlet, and learning more about exactly what goes on in there. We read the Act of Contrition together.

We wrapped up the time by talking about how we felt about what we are learning about the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Do we have questions? The children had LOTS of questions. And a couple of interesting observations as well:

• Rocking Horse noted that she finally figured out that the sacrament has 3 names: Confession, Penance, and Reconciliation.
  
• Effusive Jaguar said this sacrament uses a lot of big words.
  
• Fair Cheetah said we shouldn't be scared.
  
• Courtly Polar Bear said we shouldn't be sad.
  
• Pragmatic Tiger said he isn't sure how he feels about this whole thing.
  
• Sweet Pea Elephant said she needs to think it over some more.
  

Next week we will be joining the parish for our Christmas party and then we have a break until after the new year. Enjoy this time with your family and with the Holy Family! Merry Christmas!

Revisiting Covered Ground

Sunday December 2nd was our twelfth session together. This week we had a unit review for Unit 2, "We Ask God's Forgiveness". In preparing for the session, I wanted to again focus on phrases and images we have already used in our sessions together. The lesson plan for the session includes the topics discussion and craft activity. There is no activities worksheet for this week.

Packing Light: (The whole session was "light" - so just check out the end-of-unit review sheets from the Blest Are We workbook!)


As usual, we met in the common area for the whole group activity. We sang happy birthday to some children in other grades who have birthdays soon! We also learned Sweet Pea Elephant would not be joining us today as she is on a special camping trip. We missed her but hope she had fun!

We had a little excitement at the room because it was locked, so we found ourselves traipsing around the building looking for a room, but then found someone who had the key. Once in the room I had not even formed the words asking about mass when the children bombarded me with questions about why the priest was wearing purple today!

So we spent some time discussing how today was the first day of our Church year, and the first day of Advent. We talked about Advent and how it is a time of preparing for and waiting for Jesus to come. We talked about the Advent wreath and looked at an Advent calendar. We decided we would like very much to count down the days by coloring one star each day!

Then of course, I was curious about the rest of the Mass...

"What else did you notice at Mass today besides the purple robes? Did you all say the Penitential Rite like you promised?"

"(Some hemming and hawing on this one, but Rocking Horse definitely remembered that we said the whole thing instead of that short "Christ Have Mercy" version!)

"And how about the Gloria?"

"I'm guessing but we probably sang it"." (said Effusive Jaguar) "I don't know, I don't even think we said it today but that doesn't sound right." (said Rocking Horse)

"Oh, but you are right! During Advent we will not sing or say the Gloria! That way it can be extra special when we sing it on Christmas! And how about the Holy, Holy, Holy?"

"I do remember that - we sang it!" (said Rocking Horse, who was apparently my shill today!)

"Yep, you got it."

"Yeah, and today Saint Jan wasn't there except he did show up for a little while. That was different." (said Effusive Jaguar)

"Yes, Father Corry offered the Mass for us and Father Jan came to help minister Holy Communion. That is different for us, but it is nice, isn't it?"

(general agreement)

So then we proceeded with our primary focus for the day: we worked on some review booklets and read together the things we want to remember about forgiveness. The children colored their booklets and matched up the stickers. Some of them chose to start coloring their advent calendars instead. They each chose their favorite page to add to the gallery.





And then the big surprise was that the children took pictures of ME this time! This provided untold joy in the clasroom. My goodness! Turn about is fair play I guess. I would like to say that the photos didn't come out very well, but maybe it was the subject ;-) They made me promise to post them...














Next week we will be having a special session focused on the Sacrament of Reconciliation, so there weren't any Family Time pages, although I did hand out the Good News pages for the upcoming weeks. You can enjoy following the mass with them throughout December.

Side Trips: if you want more information, activities, and games...

• If you just have a bit of time, go for any of the online or printable activities for the chapter if you missed them the first time - they can be found at Blest Are We
• If you have two-bits of time, check out the check out the advent activities at CatholicMom.com
• For more in-depth activities, check out some of the links in the lesson plan from Unit 2, Chapter 6 there are many activities related to forgiveness and the Sacrament of Reconciliation.